Writerly Advice

Many people come to me for advice about writing. I always try to help. Some people get stuck on the first sentence. Other people find that they have too much to say and have trouble organizing their thoughts. And still others tell me that it takes them hours to write a simple one-page letter. In my work, I find that it doesn't really matter what topic I'm writing about. As long as I'm focused and have a true understanding of what I'm trying to articulate, I can find a way to say it. And so can you.

Here is the advice I most frequently give for people struggling to write:

1. Talk It Out. Many people feel overwhelmed at the prospect of putting a pen to paper, or keys on a keyboard. When I'm in a one-on-one situation helping someone write, they sometimes have a jumble of random words on the page. They often say "What I'm really trying to say is. . . ." and then they launch into a beautifully constructed and eloquent sentence. So when you are stuck, simply take a breath and say what you mean. Then write it down. You might just find your sentence speaks to you with very little effort.

2. First Is Sometimes Last. Logic dictates that we start at the beginning, move to the middle, and finish at the end. Writing isn't always like that. Sometimes the beginning of a piece of writing doesn't come into full view until you write the middle, or the end. So don't get stuck if you can't start at the beginning. Start at the middle or the end. You might just get clarity when you least expect it and find the perfect way to start.

3. Walking and Daydreaming are Part of the Writing Process.
Writing is a process that isn't necessarily linear. You don't always sit down and write until you are done. Ideas need time to percolate and seep in. Your subconscious is always working — even during off-hours. So give yourself permission to take a break or stretch or take a walk. Don't feel guilty — you are still working by giving your mind space to stretch and explore its nooks and crannies. Let your mind wander until it comes to a natural new conclusion on its own. It might happen in the shower, or in a dream, or on the treadmill. You just don't know until it happens.

4. Give Yourself A Deadline.
Writing isn't like math. There is no one correct answer and no one (besides maybe your editor if you are in that line of work) telling you to stop. If you are like me, you could keep on tinkering until until you have to go to bed, and then get up and tinker some more. The thing with writing, is that there are so many ways to go. Once you have chosen a direction, commit to it. Then tell yourself that you will be done at a certain time. Stop, with the knowledge that your first instincts are often the best ones.